Why I am “anti-gay.”

Many will take that title to mean that I hate gay people. That I want them all dead or at least shipped off to the Netherlands so the rest of us could live in peace. The truth is my problem is not so much with the average gay or lesbian I meet in the course of my day. It is with the Gay Elite, the powerful political organizations and PACs, that wish to bend the rest of us to their will. I have never been one to bend to anyone’s will-ask God he will tell you. So it is with those organizations that I do battle with. Even so I have come to realize the seriousness of homosexuality and it is for these reasons that I am anti-gay.

1) I don’t think anyone should have 20 years knocked off their life. Gay sex is inherent with disease, there is no healthy way to have gay sex. I am about to get graphic here so excuse me. You cannot engage in anal sex (and this goes for straight couples too) without inviting a host of diseases into your body. The anus was not created to take that kind of penetration. We also must look at the purpose of sperm. Sperm was created to create children. Therefore when it goes into a woman’s body it suppresses her immune system. It does this so it can find the egg and fertilize it without being killed by the lymph system. It will usually suppress it for a day or two after that it is fair game. Of course, the sperm won’t survive much longer than that anyway. Now imagine you’re a sperm and you are ejected into a man’s body. You still suppress the immune system because that is what you are programmed to do but meanwhile you are looking for an uterus you will never find. There is nothing to fertilize so you die but not before some more of your buddies also make their way into this same body, and some more and some more and some more. And before you know it you have thrown your immune system out of whack because of all this suppressant you keep putting in it and what do you get? AIDS-that’s what. This is why it is so easy for AIDS to travel man to man or man to woman but very hard to travel woman to woman or woman to man. But AIDS/HIV is just the start there are so many other diseases out there that affect gay men specifically more than the general public. It is shameful we care more about their right to engage in sodomy then we care about their lives.

2) Because there is no freedom in homosexuality. By this I mean if you have even one same sex fantasy you are told you are gay, that you will always be gay, that you were born this way and it is up to you to further the cause by embracing the gay lifestyle. People like Jake Taylor, an ex-gay man from England or Alan Chambers, the founder of Exodus-one the largest ex-gay ministries in the U.S.- are told that change is impossible. Even though we know sexuality is fluid, nowadays it must be immutable in order to usurp the civil rights that were fought for and paid with, blood, sweat and tears of ethnic minorities.

3) I am anti-gay because I feel gays and lesbian deserve a better life then one that seems to be affected by depression, suicide, promiscuity, domestic violence, and alcohol abuse to name just a few things. While many will contend that there are an immeasurable amount of people who are happy being gay, there is a much larger group that is not. These people are silenced or are told they suffer from internal homophobia. Reparative therapy is often ridiculed by those in the gay community. A person who might seek it out is often berated for doing so. Even if they feel “wrong” in having same sex relations, they are told their reasons for not engaging in same sex sex are based on bigotry and are unenlightened.

4) I am anti-gay because the collective group as a whole looks down on marriage and child-rearing. Even though not one of them could exist without us “breeders” they are still quite adamant in their distaste for raising children. I have personally been told by a gay man that my having a child is no big deal that even monkeys can have children and where is Planned Parenthood when you need them? Or how about this post from some pro-gay person who commented about a recent story where straight people were being called breeders and Jamaican men had racial slurs hurled their way: “Really? You’re worried about violence from the gay guys calling you breeders? What, are they forcibly going to make you fabulous? And since when was verbally accosting people a crime? I’d totally be in jail by now.” http://www.giveupblog.com/2006/07/damn-breeders.html. Obviously this person sees nothing wrong with intimidating, threatening or assaulting straight people! All of which is ILLEGAL!!!! These people demand respect for their lifestyle but seem unwillingly to give the same respect to the rest of us. People like this blogger are bullies. (Note: Most people think assault is physically hurting someone, assault is actually threatening someone, battery is physically harming them.)

5) I am anti gay because they actively promote division. When it is not gays vs. straights, it is gays vs. lesbians. And there is an intense hatred for bisexuals by those in the alphabet community. You only have to read “After the Ball: How America Will Conquer Its Fear and Hatred of Gays in the 90’s” to understand this. The authors admit to using propaganda on the American public to endear homosexuality to the masses that would exclude, drag queens, pedophiles and anyone else who didn’t resemble the boy/girl next door. They admitted that gay men hate lesbians and lesbians want nothing to do with gay men. And then if that wasn’t enough you have a million sub-categories of gays-tops, bottoms, bug chasers, gift givers, and every fetish known to man. Everything in this world of theirs is centered on whom they sleep with. There is nothing like that in the “straight” community. We may have our preferences but we sure don’t define our entire identity on them.

It is for all these reasons that I am anti-gay. I firmly believe we short change gays by allowing them to live in their sin. Moreover, glorifying it and normalizing it has done more harm than good. One day people will look back and will be amazed at how truly cold we were. They will show nothing but contempt when they read about how we threw our children to the wolves in order not to hurt someone’s feelings. Our cowardice will be epic but hopefully so will our heroism as we finally stand together and fight those who call us bigots for protecting our children. You want to be gay-fine. But you are not taking my child with you! For in the end I am Black and Right!

55 thoughts on “Why I am “anti-gay.”

  1. Wow. Where to begin.

    #1 – Any sex without a condom is risky. Also, (and I’m not condoning condom-less sex here), what’s the difference between a woman and a man who both engage in a lot of sex without condoms? According to your “logic”, the woman will have her immune system suppressed just as much as the man.

    #2 – Who thinks like this? It’s common knowledge that people often have diverse fantasies, and plenty they wouldn’t act on. It’s healthy. I’ve never heard anyone except homophobic types say that once you have a same-sex thought you’re gay. Experimentation is healthy and many people go through such a phase; this doesn’t mean you’re gay, and I doubt many people who DO identify themselves as gay would automatically say that means you are.

    #3 – Unless you can cite references, this is purely conjecture. If you’re unhappy, you’re unhappy. This is hardly a gay problem – the reason people are often dismissive of it is because the roots of the problem are much deeper than a sexual identity, after all, if being gay makes you unhappy, then making you straight should solve all the problems, right? Well no, of course not – the problem is much more inherent and subtle.

    #4 – This is so ridiculous I don’t even know where to begin. Why would gays look down on marriage when it’s one of their number one desires right now? If gays hated raising kids, why do so many fight for the right to do so through surrogates and adoption?

    #5 – While you have a point that the gay community has issues with internal segregation, I beg to differ that your logical extension to including fetishists and interests as an example of that is a fallacy. For most of them, these are simply INTERESTS that are a part of their overall makeup, exactly the same as a straight person that’s interested in similar ideas (if you don’t think there aren’t gold diggers, S&M / bondage types, and those that have a certain “type” in the straight world, you are deluded). This doesn’t define a gay person any more than a person interested in red-heads defines that person. When you let that interest take over your entire personality, that’s a problem – but that’s not restricted to the gay community.

    And what does it mean by “you are not taking my child with you”? Do you actually think the gay community is actively trying to lure your children into their clutches? Sorry but that is so ludicrous that I can’t even take it seriously. Do you think that most adoptive gay parents do it so they can indoctrinate their kids as “gay”? I mean that’s what you’re insinuating – they are out to convert everyone. Of course any normal person will realize that for the most part, raising kids with a gay couple or influence does nothing for their sexual orientation, and that the most important things are love, caring, and respect.

    I’m so sorry you feel that it’s wrong to “normalize” a person who happens to be gay, to treat them with the same respect you would give anyone else. They don’t want to glorify being gay any more than you want to glorify being straight. The only reason you think it’s being “thrown in your face” is because people are no longer afraid to hide their feelings. And why should they? It’s sad that you feel threatened by something which is not threatening to you in the least.

    If you feel that it’s morally wrong, then that’s fine; everyone is entitled to their own opinion. But at least back it up with real facts and logic, not vague anecdotes and uneven comparisons. But unless it’s affecting the way you live your own life, your opinions and ideas shouldn’t impinge on anyone else’s right to live they want to live.

  2. I live in the UK. I am homosexuality but I want OUT of this path of death. I’ve had enough and I’m sick of it. Is there any way I can get in touch with Jake Taylor featured in your article? I was reading his diary and I was really inspired. I have had enough. God didn’t create me to be like this. I want to be free from the lie I’ve been living.

  3. Your arguments are deeply, deeply flawed for the most part. Either ignorant or flat-out wrong.

    1) This has no scientific basis whatsoever. HIV (which is needed to contract AIDs in the first place) doesn’t come from moving your immune system “out-of-whack”, nor does it come from “ingesting” ‘too much sperm’. What you’re referring to is the fact that sperm cells are coated with a protein that tells the immune system that they shouldn’t be attacked. The same protein coats some cancers, parasitic worms etc. It makes no direct difference to your immune system’s ability to function at all, the only way sperm can have that effect is if it is already infected with HIV. The risks posed by HIV affect all sexualities, and despite common belief the transmission of HIV is more prevalent is heterosexual relations than in homosexual relations.

    2) I don’t think I’ve ever personally come across this, but I can see what you’re saying. Unfortunately this has more to do with education and personal freedom than homosexuality. Similarly, if someone finds that they are indeed homosexual after a lot of thought and consideration, should they not be free to engage in what makes them comfortable, rather than feel suppressed into a heterosexual lifestyle?

    3) The same is probably true for heterosexual people (in terms of proportions) for those who are unhappy. Again, surely if people didn’t hold attitudes such as yours there wouldn’t be such a “taboo” around homosexuality and people wouldn’t have to live such “horrible lifestyles” rife with suicide and other things. Once again I’ve never come across this personally, but I can sort of understand your point, I just feel this has less to do with being homosexuals and more to do with general ignorance on the majority’s part. You yourself admit they suffer homophobia, what then is the solution? Being “Anti-Gay” or learning tolerance?

    4) For a third time, this is something I’ve never come across, but I can assure you that the majority of gays are either indifferent or positive of child-rearing. I myself wish to adopt when I’m older, or conceive a child using the technology available to us. You can call this unnatural if you want but the amount of campaigns for equal marriage and adoption rights the world-over seem to contradict your idea that gays are “anti-breeders”. I think you should research your ideas a little more before taking one source and making wild generalisations from it.

    5) That is just straight up rubbish, in all honesty. The gay community doesn’t segregate itself at all. This whole gays vs. lesbians idea is a stereotype developed by heterosexuals, it holds no truth in the world, and the whole “gays vs. straights” is more accurately described as homosexuals fighting for equal rights. We’re not trying to fight you, just trying to earn equality, I don’t know where you got this idea that somehow we’re personally attacking you, but I can assure you that you’re wrong on that one. Like heterosexuals we all have our personal tastes, and as we’re a diverse and spread out community (like almost any other, including heterosexuals) we have ways to show our personal tastes by affiliating with a “group”, though it has to be said that many gays do not do this at all. “Tops” and “Bottoms” as groups is like grouping heterosexuals into “long-haired” and “short-haired”. Again this “sex-obsessed” gay community stereotype is wrong, and people don’t centre their grouping on sexual interests, it’s about appearance, the same way people group teenagers by appearance such as “goths” and “jocks” etc. When you’re facing up attitudes like these, you’ve got to stick together, eh?

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    As an extra, I would like to question your first declaration that you’re anti-gay due to “large groups” or the “gay elite”. None of your arguments are centred on the group instead the individual (apart from your last one, and again that seems to focus not on group behaviour but the fact we’re in groups in the first place). Based on your tags such as “prop 8″ and a look around your blog suggest that really you’re just an ill-informed homophobe. “I have no problem with day-to-day gays but the gay elite” followed by points aimed at homosexuals as individuals is as convincing as “I have a gay friend so I can say…”

    This is a perfect collection of the traditional homophobic arguments (all we need is a “but the Bible says it wrong” and we’re golden), and as a Christian it saddens me that such ignorance and self-importance still exists in the world, and worse that people feel it necessary to share these views with the masses on the internet.

    I look forward to your reply.

  4. Right on Donn! Laura, if you are disgusted by my description of homosexuality then take it up with the practitioners that actually practice such behavior. If you are disgusted by me, it is because I am shining a light on the truth and you can’t handle it! I am disgusted by cowards like you.

  5. I’m also reading Jake Taylor, Diary of an ex-gay man. It is very worth the time for anyone who does not understand the homosexual life style, or those who want to know if change is possible.

  6. “Obviously this person sees nothing wrong with intimidating, threatening or assaulting straight people! All of which is ILLEGAL!!!!”

    You wanna talk about what’s Illegal? How about the number of gays and transvestites are murdered each year by bigots? The number of gays tied to trees and lynched, the number of transvestites who get their skulls crushed in by having a car door repeatedly smashed into it?
    And hey, having a gay man call a straight man a “breeder” is about 1,000 times less rude than a straight man calling a gay man a “fag” or “faggot”
    And no gay man can forcibly take your child, so chill out.

  7. Oh please more people get killed by dog bites than the number of gays and transvestites murdered each year. According to some pro-gay organization up in Hollywood, the number comes to a whooping 12 per year! Twelve-are you kidding me! How many people get killed by drunk drivers each year? A lot more than 12 I can assure you! That comes out to one a month, there is no epidemic of gay violence! In fact, gay violence has gone down over the years, while straight violence has risen. That comes directly from the FBI Hate Crime statistics-so get your facts straight!

  8. Funny how you didn’t (probably can’t) counter what Tom and Sam said.

    Why people are so focused on sexuality when it’s ignorance and irresponsibility that’s the cause of almost all problems?

  9. Thank you! Do you ever feel like you are going crazy? 20 years ago, we would have considered what is going on today with the push for homosexuality to be a respected way of life to be “insane”. Today, they want us to accept this as mainstream…and to do so, they adopt mascots to sweeten the pot like characters on Will & Grace and just about every prime time comedy or drama. Gays are portrayed as lovable, caring, funny, lighthearted infallible beings. They make putting down homosexual behavior akin to kicking a puppy dog. It’s all STRATEGY. I am hearing people saying homosexual sex is normal and natural, even…and every last shred of common sense out there says this is irrefutably false.

    There is no pride in being homosexual. The facts on homosexuality CANNOT be refuted no matter how hard these pro-destructive lifestyle people spin their wheels trying to explain it away with pseudoscience. When I speak with frustration here, it is not towards the young man or young woman who is gay and not prideful. It is towards those screaming in the streets for the same “rights” as heterosexuals and proclaiming this as a normal lifestyle. It’s not. If they want the same respect from straight people, they can try giving it first.

    I love every point you have to make and wish I knew more people like you who weren’t afraid to stand up and say what they are thinking…The pro-gay movement BULLIES people into silence and THAT is hate. Everyone should be entitled to an opinion and should stand up and refused to be silence by petty little insults like “You disgust me!” or being called “homophobic” (that’s the funniest one – ever seen someone throw up their hands and scream ‘AAAAH! It’s a gay! Hide me!’) or accuse them of hate speech or other such nonsense. I have never personally met anyone who promoted violence against homosexuals, wished ill will upon them, etc. All I have met are people deeply concerned that they have been falsely misled to believe this lifestyle carries no detrimental consequences to the quality of their lives…oh, and if there IS a detrimental consequence, blame those “hateful” Christians or other anti-gay straight people. No WAY should they ever accept the consequences of their own actions. Just like an alcoholic, as much as he LOVES alcohol should never admit alcohol is the problem, nor a drug addict should never admit drugs are harming him instead of helping him. Life is about urges and temptations being thrown at us left and right. Those who are successful in life and ultimately happy (we’re not talking success=money here) learn how to avoid those vices. Very well written post…and quite a few uneducated comments. You are not alone in your concerns. The scientist pushing for global acceptance of a gay gene pretty much admitted his research was all skewed on opinions. We can call it what it is – a choice – and a very unfortunate one.

  10. Where I live there are more gays becoming more obvious, what can i do when 85 percent of my friends or work colleagues are gay? I am not the type to discriminate against gays.

    Personally I accept your decision if your going to be gay etc.. but I feel now that being “gay” is now becoming the majority and on a large scale to be the norm.

    How does this affect me?

    Well first it affects the society that i live in meaning if your gay you definitely love the more decadent life style, everything associated with “fake” making women feel inferior because most gays I know come with a complex. e.g- “keeping up with the Jones” or “keeping up with the Kardashians” lol…

    This is the part of being “gay” really annoys me because it creates an unhealthy social environment, and can be detrimental to some peoples health especially if you fall under the tittle of being submissive.

    I just wish most gay people i know were happy with themselves… most of the gay people in my life are always trying to be perfect.

    predictions for the future?

    I’m guessing we’ll start seeing “threesome marriages so either way someone doesn’t get left out and needs get met… gay ethnic cleansing anyone?

    This comment is purely to give you an insight for what it is like for a young women in a gay dominated society if it offends you I apologize in advance.

    _Blaire_

  11. this sick i am bisexual and happy with my life i use comdoms with lads and girls and i like doingv other things with lads girls cant do. I read so of the crap some people have wrote it reminds me of i certain group of people from germany in 1938 if there is a moden ss u sud joine it 2011 grow up i bet if your boss was gay u wud keep ya month shut this website is a hate site.

  12. i am a bisexual i would not change it for the world, i have slept with lads and women. some of the peoples comments say they r not gay haters but u r some of u r properly in gay them serfs but cant admit it to them serfs, the rest of u who think homosexuality is wrong u guys are the ones with the problem. If u want to go live somewhere where its ok to beat up gays and make your self feel more self rightist go live in Iran. u will welcome there with your backwards vie view the world. u r the people who need education i bet u dont even know how gay sex works. if 10 people reply to this 1 of them in gay or bi and if i met u i could tell in a heart beat. (sorry about the spelling have dispriaxa effects my spelling and grammar)

  13. Anyone with a high school education knows that your first numbered paragraph is blatantly incompetent. Did you go to school? Have you ever read a single article on the science behind HIV/AIDS? How did you not at least research HIV/AIDS to some extent before you decided to use it in your argument.

    Honestly why do you write these blogs when you are so obviously misinformed? You are a hateful person who makes the world a worse place.

  14. The immunosuppressive effects of human seminal plasma are mediated by several factors. Semen contains several inhibitors of complement and a unique reservoir of CD59, a major complement inhibitor, is found on the prostasomes which are sub-micron organelles with lipid membranes. The prostasomes also inhibit lymphocyte proliferation (lymphocytes? You mean as in the lymph system which is our immune system? It inhibits their proliferation, meaning it stops them from making a lot…hmmm) and the activity of phagocytic cells (living organisms that ingest or engulf other particles originally used for nutritional purposes back when life on earth was mostly found in the water) . A thesis is proposed that the balance between maximum chances of survival for spermatozoa and minimum chances for micro-organisms has been disturbed by an increased use of non-barrier contraception, an increase in population mobility and sexual contact and the arrival of new diseases such as AIDS. A further major concern is that following infection of cells of the cervix with virus, repeated exposure to human seminal plasma may accelerate the progression of disease. (http://www.humrep.oxfordjournals.org/content/10/7/1686.abstract)
    Okay so where exactly was I wrong? And I got your high school!

  15. Thank you so much for writing this! It’s nice to know that there are other anti-gay people out there

  16. When I have read this post I honestly thought it is a satire, a humorous pseudo argumentation against homosexuality that makes fun of ignorance and stereotypes. It is still funny, however I do not think that it was designed as such.
    p.s. please, write some more.

  17. Also gays and homosexuals are going against what God wants man to be with women Homosexuals disgust me.

  18. Jim, I could care less about what your imaginary deity that you call “God” wants me to do. Get over it! And Christian bigots like yourself disgust me.

  19. Wait… there are people reading this that actually believe it and are thanking the writer?

    LOL! Ignorance loves company, clearly.

  20. Yes, ignorance does and you are are clearly ignorant about the serious ramifications of homosexual behavior but that does not surprise me. With the ongoing sexualization of our youth and our society, all sexual behavior is deemed as appropriate and safe when that is clearly not the case.

    To the person who said I am spreading hate, it is actually people like yourself who won’t speak out and are allowing gays to die these painful deaths because of the acts that they commit that are truly hateful. Not me. That is not love. Love is speaking the truth, no matter what it costs you because in the end it just might save someone from going down the wrong road. That is what I am doing. And just because God loves all his children, does not mean he loves all behavior or thinks all behavior is good and righteous in his eyes. Homosexuality is wrong. And just because I am willing to stand behind that statement does not make me self-righteous. It makes me honest and willing to incur the wrath of the Left, so that I may save my brethern and sisters caught in the grip of homosexuality.

  21. Cool story bro, now tell me why you’re anti-race and anti-woman. Would love to hear your “intelligent” reasons. :)

  22. First of all, learn to read it says Dena Leichnitz’s world in Black.n right. I am a woman. But to answer your question I am anti-race because it a fake social construct based on even more fake science – eugenics. There is only one species of human beings period. Next I am pro woman but anti-feminist because feminists have pitted women against their own children and men as well. They promote sexual promiscuity even the consequences of such.behavior carries a much steeper price than it does for men. So for those reasons I am anti-race and anti feminist.

  23. BlacknRight it seems the article you quoted was published back in the “Hum. Reprod. (1995) 10 (7): 1686-1693.”. Does this really seem like a safe source to be quoting scientific information in? I mean think about it, how many advances have they made in medical science in the past almost 20 years? I wont say I hate you, because we are all entitled to our own opinion. I am a bisexual 21 yo male, and I am no more promiscuous than my straight counterparts. I hope God shows you the light when you get to Heaven. I love the same as anyone else.

  24. Wow. I’m not sure I have the words to adequately address all the glaring ignorance in your posts.

    Suffice it to say that your statements are bigoted and even more important, they’re ignorant. Your “science” is so wrong it’s laughable. In fact, I don’t think there’s a SINGLE point you made that is actually correct or credible. I’m not sure we can “allow” you to live this life of ignorance. It would be too cruel.

    Where ever you’re getting your information, for the love of all that is good in the world – STOP. If you feel gays and lesbians deserve a better life, then stop being “anti-gay.” It’s not becoming.

  25. you are a fucking moron. gay anal sex has nothing to do with the cervix you dumb cunt. you are a fucking loser, and should be locked up. and you still havent responded to sam’s comment, nor tom’s. you are a fucking bitch.

  26. Thank you so much for having some common sense. I do disapprove of homosexuality and quite frankly I feel like the concept has been shoved down our throats at this point. Men and women were created to compliment one another. If it was meant to be man to man or woman to woman, then surely that would have been god’s intention. It is not the people that I hate so much as the concept of homosexuality. Thank you so much for pointing out everything and speaking out. :)

  27. It is a matter of fact that homosexuality is a perversion. Whether or not pervs are going to kill themselves or each other is none of my concerns. However, I wonder what will happen to a society who equates one group of pervs with normality, a group which shows, by the way, a significant lack of creativity because all they obviously strive for is becoming poor copies of normal people. How can this society set a limit towards other groups of pervs? The next insanity may be bisexuals demanding the right to get married to two people, and pedophiles who want to marry minors. If we as society equate one perversion, where is the limit?
    Honestly, I don’t care about those individuals’ sexual activities, but I do care about the institution of marriage in social terms. As a person, I can say yes or I can say no to marriage for many reasons, but how could I expect marriage to adapt to my purely personal attitudes?
    From my point of view, the whole problem is not about sexually deviant behavior but rather about the fixation on sex itself. Sex is never the main thing in a marriage; even today, a successful and stable marriage has many facets beyond sex. People who get married on the basis of sexual attraction alone will get divorced within few years because sex is never a basis for bonding but only a byproduct of a union.
    Gays define themselves about their sexual preferences, and that’s the true perversion about the entire issue. Normal people who practice a healthy kind of sex (or no sex at all) just don’t make such a ridiculous fuss about it. Pervs, however, are caricatures of reality and obviously don’t have many other qualities by which they could define themselves.

  28. Thank you. Speaking your mind is not bigotry, if that were the case then every gay who has posted here about societies un-willingness to accept their deviant behavior would also be considered bigots. Everyday I feel overwhelmed with this pro gay agenda crap, and I agree fully its un-natural and should not be accepted as a mainstream part of society. I believe Americas tolerance will be its downfall, and as you said, years from now we will look back on how this has ruined our society.

    People, be gay all you want. Its an urge, we live in a society bent on greed and gluttony. This isn’t the stone ages anymore where a human being had to reproduce because without offspring there would be no future. This is the 2000s and there are plenty of us humans now that we can start curbing population with the gay folks who just want to have fun doing what they do and be respected for it. So go right ahead, you’re only killing yourself. But stop asking for your way of life to be accepted as mainstream and normal. I will accept you as a person, but not your choice of sexuality, and that is my right and the right of the majority of Americans out there.

  29. You wanna talk about what’s Illegal? How about the number of gays and transvestites are murdered each year by bigots? The number of gays tied to trees and lynched, the number of transvestites who get their skulls crushed in by having a cardoor repeatedly smashed into it?
    And hey, having a gay man call astraight man a “breeder” is about 1,000 times less rude than a straight man calling a gayman a “fag” or “faggot”
    And no gay man can forcibly take your child, so chill out.
    We’re not trying to fight you, just trying to earn equality, I don’t know where you got this idea that somehow we’re personally attacking you, but I can assure you that you’re wrong on that one
    The church has become the leader in its fight to destroy the lives of gay people because we are the enemy. Somehow now, according to another famous Christian televangelist…we are the cause of terrorist attacks, tsunamis, earthquakes, and floods!!!
    Really?! Wow, who knew we had so muchpower!
    Christian men are different…churches attempt to teach their men to live more like Christ: more gentle, more honest, with more integrity and an emphasis on leadership. But machismo still exists and sneaks into the”Christian Man”. So, we get loud aggressive Christian leaders who think they know everything,and who act like they’re God’s right hand man. (Humbleness is one of those traits that is somehow overlooked, because it is a sign of weakness.)
    thanks

  30. Again I would like to reiterate a list of historic events that have lead up to yesterdays supreme court ruling that severely violated the rights of California voters who don’t agree with their decision.

    1. In 1952 The American Psychiatric Association, released its first version of the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual) and listed homosexuality as a “sociopath personality disturbance.”

    2. In 1968, the second version of the DSM II reclassified homosexuality as a sexual deviancy. Afterward, Berkley protestors began picketing and demanding that homosexuality be removed from the list completely.

    3. In 1973, after years of intensive debates, numerous disturbances, threats of physical violence and finally the sly cover-up of brutal executions of APA family members. The APA finally caved in and reluctantly removed homosexuality from the DSM IV.

    4. What followed was a swarm of outrage from psychiatrists within the APA who disagreed with the decision and demanded that the issue be reconsidered.

    5. In 1974, a referendum was called and approximately 40 percent of the APA’s membership voted to put homosexuality back into the DSM IV. Since a majority was not achieved to reverse the decision, homosexuality presently remains omitted from the APA’s Diagnostic and Statistical manual.

    6. Many in the scientific community have criticized the APA’s decision to remove homosexuality from the DSM IV, claiming it’s motives were political and not scientific.

    7. Along these same lines, it was later revealed that the President-elect of the APA in 1973, Dr. John P. Speigel, was a “closeted homosexual with a very particular agenda. ”Some have exaggerated or misrepresented these studies in attempt to prove that homosexuality is genetic.

    8. Others insist that homosexuality is developed after birth as a response to one’s environment. The truth is that we have no conclusive replicable research to prove either conclusion.

    9. Most researchers have come to the conclusion that sexual orientation is likely determined by a complex interaction between a person’s genetic make-up and their environment. Even the American Psychological Association asserts that: There are numerous theories about the origins of a person’s sexual orientation; most scientists today agree that sexual orientation is most likely the result of a complex interaction of environmental, cognitive and biological factors. In most people, sexual orientation is shaped at an early age seventeen and the American Psychiatric Association wrote: Currently there is a renewed interest in searching for biological etiologies for homosexuality. However, to date there are no replicated scientific studies supporting any specific biological etiology for homosexuality.Whatever the case, we know from the personal testimonies of thousands that homosexuality is a changeable condition.

    10. Stanton Jones, who is Chair of Psychology at Wheaton College states: “Every secular study of change has shown some success rate.

    11. December 1973, the Board of Trustees overwhelmingly endorsed Spitzer’s recommendation. Opponents of the decision attempted to overturn it with a referendum of the APA membership in early 1974-just as Sabshin was beginning his 23-year tenure as APA medical director. The Board’s decision to delete homosexuality from the diagnostic manual was supported by 58 percent of the membership.

    12. At the same time the debates over sexual orientation and psychopathology were occurring, a small group of gay psychiatrists was holding informal meetings to explore forming an organization that would heighten their visibility that gay patients were not mentally ill after all.
    This event, unthinkable two or three years earlier, explained Robert Cabaj, M.D., to the overflow audience, culminated in 1978 in the establishment of the organization that eventually became the Association of Gay and Lesbian Psychiatrists (AGLP), which now has more than 60,000 members worldwide.

    13. Lastly, “antisocial personality disorder” replaced sociopath personality disturbance when it was removed from the third printng of the DSM. Antisocial personality disorder is a mental health condition (same as homosexuality) in which a person has a long-term pattern of manipulating, exploiting, or violating the rights of others.

  31. A list of historic events that have lead up to the supreme court ruling that severely violated the rights of California voters who don’t agree with their decision.

    1. In 1952 The American Psychiatric Association, released its first version of the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual) and listed homosexuality as a “sociopath personality disturbance.”

    2. In 1968, the second version of the DSM II reclassified homosexuality as a sexual deviancy. Afterward, Berkley protestors began picketing and demanding that homosexuality be removed from the list completely.

    3. In 1973, after years of intensive debates, numerous disturbances, threats of physical violence and finally the sly cover-up of brutal executions of APA family members. The APA finally caved in and reluctantly removed homosexuality from the DSM IV.

    4. What followed was a swarm of outrage from psychiatrists within the APA who disagreed with the decision and demanded that the issue be reconsidered.

    5. In 1974, a referendum was called and approximately 40 percent of the APA’s membership voted to put homosexuality back into the DSM IV. Since a majority was not achieved to reverse the decision, homosexuality presently remains omitted from the APA’s Diagnostic and Statistical manual.

    6. Many in the scientific community have criticized the APA’s decision to remove homosexuality from the DSM IV, claiming it’s motives were political and not scientific.

    7. Along these same lines, it was later revealed that the President-elect of the APA in 1973, Dr. John P. Speigel, was a “closeted homosexual with a very particular agenda. ”Some have exaggerated or misrepresented these studies in attempt to prove that homosexuality is genetic.

    8. Others insist that homosexuality is developed after birth as a response to one’s environment. The truth is that we have no conclusive replicable research to prove either conclusion.

    9. Most researchers have come to the conclusion that sexual orientation is likely determined by a complex interaction between a person’s genetic make-up and their environment. Even the American Psychological Association asserts that: There are numerous theories about the origins of a person’s sexual orientation; most scientists today agree that sexual orientation is most likely the result of a complex interaction of environmental, cognitive and biological factors. In most people, sexual orientation is shaped at an early age seventeen and the American Psychiatric Association wrote: Currently there is a renewed interest in searching for biological etiologies for homosexuality. However, to date there are no replicated scientific studies supporting any specific biological etiology for homosexuality.Whatever the case, we know from the personal testimonies of thousands that homosexuality is a changeable condition.

    10. Stanton Jones, who is Chair of Psychology at Wheaton College states: “Every secular study of change has shown some success rate.

    11. December 1973, the Board of Trustees overwhelmingly endorsed Spitzer’s recommendation. Opponents of the decision attempted to overturn it with a referendum of the APA membership in early 1974-just as Sabshin was beginning his 23-year tenure as APA medical director. The Board’s decision to delete homosexuality from the diagnostic manual was supported by 58 percent of the membership.

    12. At the same time the debates over sexual orientation and psychopathology were occurring, a small group of gay psychiatrists was holding informal meetings to explore forming an organization that would heighten their visibility that gay patients were not mentally ill after all.
    This event, unthinkable two or three years earlier, explained Robert Cabaj, M.D., to the overflow audience, culminated in 1978 in the establishment of the organization that eventually became the Association of Gay and Lesbian Psychiatrists (AGLP), which now has more than 60,000 members worldwide.

    13. Lastly, “antisocial personality disorder” replaced sociopath personality disturbance when it was removed from the third printng of the DSM. Antisocial personality disorder is a mental health condition (same as homosexuality) in which a person has a long-term pattern of manipulating, exploiting, or violating the rights of others.

  32. Your feeble attempt to equate the struggle of Blacks with the struggle of gays through insipid humor is insulting on so many levels. When gay only water fountains and lunch counters start popping up or when they are exterminated like the Jews or the Native American tribes were, we can talk then. But in the meantime, I do not want to hear your low brow attempt to associate someone’s behavior with my skin color.

  33. So ironic that these pro-choice people commenting on this have no hesitation in calling you names or swearing at you because of a position you stand on. I believe every point you made is true, and it is because others have not done any research on the topic because they’re happier being the actual ignorant ones and just accepting everything today. Tomorrow it will be “accept drug addicts!” Or “pedophilia is normal”… Right? There is no standing up for right and wrong these days as long as the media portrays it as okay because we all know how good the tv and radio are at brainwashing the 98%.

    There is no such thing as pro-choice because there is always two choices in a matter and people are on one side of the fence. You cannot root for both teams. Hopefully people get it that homosexuality is not normal, it is a mental illness that roots from insecurity and sin. Also not to mention it bases it’s foundation on promiscuity and lust, which are self-centered qualities versus heterosexuality which is SUPPOSED to be centered on the other person and love. (Not to say that there arent faults with any heterosexual relationships).

    Thank you again for standing up in what you believe in and what is RIGHT and NORMAL!

    P.s. also agree with the anti-race and anti-feminist. It’s all a conspiracy.

  34. Wow.. As a father of 4, after reading this I thought that there weren’t any others in this world who thought as I did. Homosexuality has at this time been shoved down our throats as being “the norm”. Whatever happened to the straight persons fredoom of speech??? I have to watch what I say, how I say it and where I say it ,because can’t offend anyone. I have come to realize that it’s not only the homosexuality that is being pushed upon us.. I will say this, I raise my children tO be logical and listen to everyones stand point.. But just because the majority agrees on something doesn’t make it right. Todays day and age has greatly chnaged form when I was younger.. Im only a early 30’s man but I am soooo worried about the world the future for my children..

  35. Seriously you think that homosexuality is a mental illness? Even though that ideology is not based on any facts in the least? You think ones sexual orientation comes from insecurity? Now you know why the far right is losing elections. Because your not based in reality any more. Maybe you need to head the words of Pope Francis who said “who am I to judge”.

  36. Cliff, your in your 30’s not your 60’s …Every generation says the same line..”this is not how it was when I was a kid”. That line gets old.

  37. Did you even read the article? Obviously not. I never even used the words mental illness. Those are your words not mine. As far reality, it is you that is refusing to see it. I gave you information directly from the CDC and I am not based in reality? You cannot really counter anything I said because you have your own agenda. And as for the whole who am I to judge crap, give it a rest! I am judging behavior, which is what we are supposed to do. Nowhere in the article do I call homosexuals any derogatory names or demean them. You obviously are unable to do anything but sit there and be offended. I did not write anything that was “offensive” except to people who want to be offended.

  38. Black night. .I was referring to Gabriels comment about the mental disease..not yours. I apologize for not making that more clear. As for comment of not judging…those were the Pontiffs words not mine.

  39. Its very sad when people go against nature & GOD. Man can make every wrong he does, right in his own eyes.GOD has already destroyed two cities for this sin. Are we next?

  40. Hey everyone, have something to chew on,
    I’m 16 years old- I’m a kid, yup, don’t get government politics social statuses etc. it’s all above my head for sure. I have known I was “different” for quite sometime and just this last year I’ve come to terms that I’m homosexual. Did I say, hey let me have the urge to have intercourse with another man? No and in fact I tried to trick myself, say I’m straight I never wanted to be gay, I’m not homophobic obviously at this point, but I’m uncomfortable with the way I’m programmed. Notice how I said programmed and not how I chose to live. It’s unsettling to know how many ignorant people in the world there are that claim we choose to be this way. Sexuality is something that everyone on this planet it born with, not something we decide. Stop and think, why would anyone choose to live a life filled with hatred and discrimination? I’m rambling because of all of the horrible comments and false knowledge placed throughout this so do excuse me. I’m an AP student, taken some of the highest biology classes available in my state and this whole aids thing being specifically for gays makes me nauseous. That article you sorted barely discussed what your point was and At that was off. Next, your comment with assimilating this with anti-semetism and civil rights? Are you implying it takes killings and a holocaust for freedom? Is that what it takes to earn equality in this damned corrupted world? Next, the religists (which isn’t a word but I feel like it needs to be used to generalize the group I’m speaking too). Isn’t Christianity about forgiveness? Jesus forgave our sins. My mother is a a strong catholic and her church has modernized enough to say homosexuality may not be something we agree with but we TOLERATE is and acknowledge that it should exist because of EQUALITY. Finally, to the people agreeing with this statement. Those who say I’m tired of having it shoved down our throats. Then simply do the following-
    1 sit the hell down
    2 shut up
    3 let all the marriage equality laws pass
    4 live life the way that you can be happy
    It’s bigots like you that we have these organizations, that we have to take pride in something like sexuality. If you people would be quiet, we wouldn’t need to have massive rally’s and annoying groups trying to strike for equality. Something our nation was founded upon.
    The moral here, is what I’ll sum it down for you less intelligent people to comprehend
    1 nobody chooses to be gay- it’s hard wired into us from birth
    2 shut up about homosexuality and HIV/AIDS no one wants to hear about that anymore it’s beyond its time and reason ability
    3 don’t demean this social uprising simply because thousands of people aren’t dying. I’m a person of African American descent and by your name, I’m assuming you are. I take pride in being African American should I not do the same with something else OUR god gave us like the color of our skin?
    4 religions need to wake up, not gonna go into detail. If Jesus forgave you can too
    5if you want homosexuality to stop being such a big uproar just agree for these bills to pass and be agreed
    on. Thats all it takes, once everyone’s equal- we shut up- you shut up everyone’s happy
    Wake up people it’s the 21st century where it doesn’t take millions of people dying or years of slavery to reach equality

  41. Chris, WELL SAID! Nice to see such an intelligent young man who knows his Catholicism. The Pope made it clear that like the people on this board spreading hate many people need to work on judging less and working on social justice issues more. Amen to all you said!!

  42. The gay agenda has controlled discourse about homosexuality through their redefinition of all terms associated with the phenomenon. It has been a PR effort for many years, sometimes overt and sometimes covert. Changing “queer”, “faggot” and “homo” to “GAY” has associated homosexuality with “happy, free, creative, fun-loving”. They have termed heterosexuals as “STRAIGHT” meaning, “rigid, unimaginative, conforming”. Now, which category would you like to be aligned?

    If you choose to say you dislike homosexuality, you are called “homophobic”, or Any type of negative reference to homosexuality is now considered a violation of a person’s civil rights. The bullying has reversed. Homosexuals now bully anyone who opposes their agenda through threats of legal action or loss of their livelihoods (Phil Robertson, Duck Dynasty).

    Homosexuality is a perversion of normal sexual relationships. That is a given. Should it be obliterated? No. There are many sexual deviations that humans mutually participate in and enjoy and thus can be tolerated. However, that does not mean they should be sanctified or approved by the greater social institution of marriage.

    According to a recent article by Kathryn Lopez, San Francisco Archbishop Salvatore Cordileone stated during the annual March for Marriage: “Every child comes from a man and a woman, and has a right, a natural human right, to know and be known by, to love and be loved by, their own mother and father. This is the great public good that marriage is oriented towards and protects. The question is then: does society need an institution that unites children to the mothers and fathers who bring them into the world, or doesn’t it?”

    Cordileone insists that we must first “rebuild a marriage culture, a culture which recognizes and supports the good of intact families, built on the marriage between a man and a woman committed to loving faithfulness to each other and to their children.” That’s what this country should be about. Individually, we may wind up choosing something else, wanting something else, doing something else. But can we reflect on what’s common about human nature and what’s good for a society?

    The Catholic Church believes that two people of the same sex should be unable to marry. The capacity of a man and woman to procreate gives their union special and unique significance. This complementarity and the capacity that exists for the creation of a new person are essential to marriage, even when this potentiality is not fully realized, as in the case with couples who divorce or couples are unable or choose not to have children.

  43. Why is racism any different from hating against gay people? Why is it horrible to call someone of another race a horrible name but not someone with a different sexuality. You want to know why gays are depressed about what they are, because of people like you and society making them feel like they are horrible human beings and not normal! I wouldnt even want your child btw you can keep it

  44. Where did I call someone a name in this article? I didn’t. Where did I say that name calling was okay? I didn’t. So don’t take your issues out on me. Either respond to the points I have discussed or don’t respond at all. If you have trouble with your sexuality, that is not my fault. You need to get right with yourself and God but don’t ask me to see it as just some benign life choice because it is not and it comes with real consequences and I am not going to play those down to make people “less depressed.”

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